Concrete expectations and consequences are so important with my son. I made some charts to list privileges he can earn and lose, and behaviors to warrant those gains and losses. I made it in a kid friendly format so that he can understand very clearly what kinds of behaviors earn privileges verses what kinds of behaviors lose those privileges.
Privileges to be earned or taken away based on behavior
Privilege
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(picture)
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I-Pad
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Music
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T.V.
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Video Games
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Movies
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Bike
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Skateboard
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Friends
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Out-door play
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In-door play
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Library
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Yummy Snacks (sweets, chips, flavored drinks: EXTRAS)
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All Extra Food (anything in excess of meat, bread, fruit/veggies, and water)
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Weekend Day Trips (beach, pumpkin patch, etc)
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Park
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Toys/games
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Special events (holidays, birthday parties, etc)
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All items in room except the bed, 1 blanket, 1 pillow, and lamp
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Bedroom door
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Clothes (any clothes except school uniform)
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Shoe choice
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Behaviors that earn and keep privileges
Behavior
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Picture
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Following instructions
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Following Schedule
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Doing Chores
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Being Kind to people, animals, and objects
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Doing homework without complaint
Showering
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Talking about feelings
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Showing gratitude
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Reading
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Doing all responsibilities and commitments
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Behaviors that lose privileges
Behavior
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Picture
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Disobeying
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Not following schedule or doing responsibilities
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Not doing Chores
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Being unkind with words or actions
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Complaining or whining
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Being Destructive
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Being Violent
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Saying Bad Words
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Being Defiant or disrespectful
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